In some mediations a plaintiff, feeling unjustly treated, disrespected, angry and hurt, wants to publicize what the defendant did to her or him. We have managed to work through those and reach settlement, thus squelching both sides' "tell all" about the other. One of the many advantages to mediation over litigation is the ability to reach an accord and satisfaction, to put the matter behind everyone, and move on, without fear that the dispute will rear its head again. In co